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Online dating scams are full of lies and international dating has been sullied by romance scams. These online dating services are full of beautiful asian women, but they are after your money. China is the hotbed for scams and online scammers. We tell you how to avoid these pitfalls.
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Always wondered why the women I see on these asian dating sites look like cover girls. If they are this gorgeous why do they need to reach half way around the world to meet a man? The european dating sites may be as much a scam as many of the women shown are stunning.
It's not just the Asian websites. All of these websites that are froeign owned are scams, that includes the ones from russia and everywhere else in the world. Interneyt dating is a waste of time. ou may as well, go travelling as to waste your money talking to someone you don't know
We went to see places, not dating anyone but guys, you never mention QQ International, forget Facebook and go QQ since before we were in China on holiday it was a good tool to get pre-informed. From here on staying in contact with our tour advisors in Shenzhen who directed us in where - what - when, looked out for us until the tour guide arrived with mini-bus + driver and made contact with us to take over. From there on we met lots of people where them and we wanna stay in contact with beyond the time we were in China.....and we could - not every time, but most of the time see the person we were talking with on screen as they really look like, if mobile phone, tablet or later on via home PC not only while in China but back home in Australia chatting every couple of weeks. We went for 2 weeks to see Zhangjiajie, Tianmen Mountain via Changsha where our personalised tour started to travel to Wulingyuan and beyond and a year later we caught up with the people we made friends with, mostly students from the Yuelu Academy / Changsha during their learning break and did stay 4 weeks, doing things together, seeing and going places like Fenghuang, Wuhan, Chongqing we listed in our visa applications before hand - and this is important!! - so we all had a good memorable time together. Our son had once the experience were the police came late at night: Not save here!.... and they took him to another hotel, as that hotel there had no 24 hour security guard at their reception. With QQ that can be switched to English and if not all is in English, there is a translation possible, preferences can be set up, so we did know who is calling here / we done the setup friends and friends of those friends / we are in contact for years now.
If it seems to good to be true it most likely isn’t, what a great laugh. Hormones rage over brains, plonkers. If you do marry a few years later they will take everything you have, horrible culture remember the frontera milk powder poisoning, no conscience
I am socially capable as I dated quite a bit. I've used American dating websites and friends set me up. I found my love on a legit Chinese site. I'm much more qualified to comment on these things. Very successful men an women use these types of sites and have absolutely no problem getting dates. They just don't have much free time. I discuss all these things with my Soph students during a class lesson on love, romance and dating.
Many are scams, but chinalovematch.net isn't. This is where I found my wife. They have a set reasonable fee like eHarmony and Match.com. Also you can the girls personal info immediately like e-mail, WeChat unlike scammer sites. Asianbeauties.com is an example of a scammer site.
I'm a little confused. For a long time I listened to Winston. Loved it. Then slowly, ever so slowly, he started to become pretty negative. In conjunction with his hanging out with C Milk. What's up with that?
I have met and had relationships (sex) with maybe 20 Chinese women, but that began about ten years ago. Still have a few friends from those days, and a few did have something to offer, but all lacked real morals.
China has no morals, people are not all bad, but different values. On the other hand, the government is evil to the core. Up to the change a few years back, locals expected things to get better, but the new "Emperor" is an evil bastard cut from the same cloth as Mao, and China is the real long term threat the the USA, and the West. War may come at some point, and i do not mean economic war, that is already going on .
Love ya work gentz! I went to SEA for work in 1999 and stayed for ten years.... a lot more western than China - but the local ladies were still bloody hard work and yeah, family came first! The crazy thing is - two women I wanted to marry (at different times - of course) - still call me for a chat every few weeks. Asian girls carry big regrets - in their hearts and mines - so if you really want it - never give up - Asian women can be the best. 👌 😎
Most of this people claiming to be military personels on dating sites are scammers. You find them on every dating sites , also on instagram. I was involved in a romance scam that I lost a lot of money to the tune $500,000 . I advice you to always insist to see your alleged lover before any financial commitment. If you have lost money to this heartless con artists you can contact [email protected] They recovered about 80% of my funds traced to the con artist that scammed me. Thank me later.
I found a beautiful woman on Filipina Cupid. I have been to PI 4 times and have been on FC on and off for years. I figure I am pretty good at identifying a scammer. So I start talking to this girl and she is so beautiful I immediately think she's a scammer. (or he). So I ask for her to write my name and the date on a piece of paper and take a selfie. Which she does immediately. This she could not fake. (I studied photoshop). This really is the girl and she's looking to get out of PI. We talk for a couple of weeks all the while I ask her to take selfies to identify truth. All the while she complies. In conversation she said she gets $15 per day and works 7 days a week. I feel sorry for her but I haven't sent any money. Some time goes by and she has a toothache. She needs to get it fixed. I'm thinking bullshit but I decide to send money. More so to see if she's bullshitting or not. Well she sends me pics of her in a dentist chair with a dentist over her and her waving 'at me'. She thanks me profusely and I start to think she is real. She said she has been working on getting a visa to go to Australia and it's nearly ready. She sends me a copy of the visa with her name on it, a copy of the flight from Singapore Airlines from Manila - Singapore - Perth. A flight I have taken 4 times. She's at the airport and says immigration took her aside and asked why she has so little money to support herself. She needs $1000 minimum to board. At this time a have complete trust in her and I actually love her. She was always going on about how she wants to do things for herself and not borrow money etc. Sounds stupid I know but I'm used to scammers because sometimes I play along with them. But this one was a master. Right down to her asking me questions about Australia and generally talking in a way that makes me think her mindset is all about leaving a poor country and coming to live with a good man in a better. Always asking questions about my personality, if I'm impatient, blah blah blah. Many many questions around what one would perceive to be legitimate concerns of someone leaving a country and living with a guy she never actually met.) Hundreds of messages that are setting me up to trust her completely. So I do, I send $1000 in Western Union. The time of her last message was 4 minutes after collecting the money and I never heard from her again. It really broke my heart. I even thought maybe she lost connection at the airport because she was going straight to the departure lounge. I spoke to her on the phone. It sounded like an airport, she sent pics of her at the airport. There comes a time where you want to show trust to them so it works out great when she gets here so you limit your questions after a while to show you trust her. So 12 hours later I go to the airport and wait at the gate in case it had just been a a case of lost signal. I sat there for an hour and a half watching strangers walk in through that arrival gate. Each one chipping away at my heart and my stupid mind. To try to explain in a couple of paragraphs makes it look like I was naive and you wouldn't have been caught like that. Well as I said, I've been doing this for years and she was so fucking good that a part of me STILL thinks she is real.
Her name is Ashley Gamosa Ramirez. I hope this helps someone because I was taken for a fucking ride. Almost $2000 worth. A beautiful woman inside and out. Video chats. Phone calls every day. Pictures always sent from wherever she said she was. The worst thing is realizing that this woman you fell in love with, is not that woman at all, and she not only does not love you, she steals from you while saying she loves you.
I did check after check with reverse image search, all kinds of scamming sites. Cross referenced her name and phone number with scam databases. No red flags. So she has given me all her info, including many photo's, of the real her, and she still scammed me. Some might say I am an idiot, to them I say you are ignorant. Some will completely understand. I will say however that when you feel like you are in love, it does blind you a little to signs you may have picked up if it were completely objective.
I have said it before but this time I will not send a cent to anyone. I will make that clear from the start and I will see who hangs around and who disappears. I hope that helps others. There are different levels of scammers. Some are really basic and just want to trick you into sending money for a webcam or some simple scam like that. Some are actual beautiful women who spend weeks grooming you and then strike when you least expect.
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I don't know what sites these guys were using, and maybe times have changed, but I used a Chinese dating website and everyone woman I met was exactly like their photos. And only once was I asked for money, which I declined to send. And in closing, I did marry one of the women that I had met online.
I'm glad you posted this video online as it helps certain people understand things that they don't normally look into. Sometimes the heart gets the best of you and it doesn't always make the right choices as it just focuses on its dreams and doesn't consider the other side. Again, good video.
I found a Filipino lady on Facebook. We Skype chatted for a while. She kept hitting me up for money. Finally I was contacted by a teenage girl who told me to tell my "creepy" girlfriend to stop sleeping with her dad.
Incidentally, I was contacted by a very nice woman from Vietnam. I was suspicious at first but she never asked me for money. She is my wife now and life is good.
If you want to meet Chinese girls outside of China, just go to any university campus whatsoever. I don't even mean that sarcastically. If there's a chance to meet and talk with strangers (mensa etc.), just use it. Since I'm mostly "focussed" on Japan and Korea and basically living in Osaka, my experiences with Chinese people are limited, but I've met one of the prettiest and cutest girls ever to enter my life that way, from Foshan. Sadly time was far too limited since she had to leave a few days later, but I can't wait to see her again one day! Now she's a real-life porcelain doll, but of course she thinks she's fat... Anyway, who needs dating sites? If you're seriously looking for a Chinese girlfriend (and under let's say 35 years old), check out your nearest university/college I'd say.
Still never been to China nor Taiwan, but that's waiting for me somewhere in the future. Love your videos, guys.
Sad story: Dutch Man flies to China and waits 10 days in airport for online girlfriend who never shows. 41-year-old Alexander Pieter Cirk flew to Hunan Province's Changsha Huanghua International Airport from Holland in the hopes of meeting his 26-year-old love interest.
AsiaCharm is a good scam site, I made a little fake profile just to see what kind of girls they have, all super models and, and all the profiles are fake and made by the same person seems like, soon as you post a picture the automated post start purring in and the automated message were the same, leave the site for 40 minutes and come back and you'll get the same automated msg saying the same thing over like there server can't keep up with what they sent you the last time you was there, you can tell the super models they have on there would have no reason to be on a dating site, and they want you to pay money for every single fake msg and if your stupid enough to give your card account to think your going to chat with one of them they charge your account while your not online just the msg you got from there server... I never gave a card number I did research online before making a account I just wanted to look at the girls, but very easy to tell thats a scam site.
You've got that right. Some Asian people don't know how to be honest. Buyer of a hard-up lover beware. They will say anything, do anything because they are so pathetic that nobody really wants them. And the dating sites - a bunch of blithering idiots who will sell their underwear for a price. To the fools stupid enough to give these assholes their hard-earned dollars. 诈骗
I would simply argue to not date anybody that you don't know in person. It's very, very rare, especially when trying to reach out to a country on the other side of the world, that even if you DO find a real person, the likelihood of things working out ANYWAY are slim to none. Seriously, what do you plan on doing? Bringing them home? Getting them citizenship in your country? Or, you really expect to get citizenship in theirs? Get real, even actually married people can't get citizenship for their spouses. I mean, even in the US, my own country, I've run into a similar problem. I met a guy online, who turned out to be totally real and exactly who he said he was, we started seeing each other (which was expensive as hell since we lived on opposite sides of the country and had to pay airfare every time we had a date), and we had a good relationship, but in the long run it didn't work out because we lived on opposite sides of the country and we couldn't ever move to be with each other because both of our jobs required us to be apart. We're still friends, but definitely had to call it quits on a relationship, and that's just the distance from one end of a country to the other, I cannot imagine the stress of trying to make things work with someone on another continent! Sure, scams are a problem, but even if it is honest, it's still not likely going to work. Even if by some miracle you DID manage to move to China to be with your Chinese girlfriend, what happens when you run into the same problem every other foreigner eventually runs into with their Chinese girlfriend and their family forces you to break up? You really want to put her through being disowned by her family just to be with her? Even if you did manage it, what would that mean for your relationship? With how divorce rates are for foreign spouses, the chances of things working out become even slimmer! All in all, no matter how exciting it may sound to date an exotic, beautiful, foreign woman, it's probably not going to work out, every odd in the deck is stacked against you, and even for those lucky enough to have managed to stay married to their Chinese wives (like these guys), they still have to walk on eggshells every day to stay with them between consistent pressure from the government, as well as pressure from their families. It's a never-ending struggle, so really think about what you're doing and take it from somebody who has been there.
Most men don't have swag. Most men don't have game. These guys believe everything that comes out of a woman's mouth. I don't like guys like this. They are the primary suckers for these women. First, always talk so you can hear their voice. Don't go pass the second online chat or date without skyping or having facetime. From then on, always talk thru skype of other facetime apps. Have good conversation and ask meaningful questions. Always vett her...ALWAYS. That's if you know what you're doing, but most men don't. They are too busy with their heads up their butts and so excited this woman is even talking to them. I have never been scammed because I don't overvalue women and what they say. Like I said, I have NEVER been scammed. Some have tried, but they all failed and they were the ones who stopped the communication because they were caught. Even the ones who did facetime. Be smart. Take your time and put ice in your sack to cool your lust if you're that horny.
My brother Shane who is mentally Handicapped thinks outside the box. His brain is of a 5th grade IQ & so he will never understand what Asian scammers are about. He messaged me on Facebook & told me that I didn't know what I was talking about but, I absolutely do know. I Loved the video! It was so funny & so true!
A lot of these girls are just looking for money. If you meet a girl on one of these sites and she asks for money NEVER send it no matter what her story is. If she is just as cool she may be real, if she gets an attitude or stops chatting with you on a regular basis then you need to block her quick and move on.
If you are spending money, it's probably better to be doing it with a travel agency instead. A lot of them sell bride searching tours to places like Vietnam and Rusia. At least that way you are meeting potential mail order brides face to face before you try starting a relationship.
Although I think mail order bride marriages usually end in divorce.
Myself personally I would spend all of my annual vacation days on vacations in the country you want to meet someone. And after you meet someone in person then start an online relationship and go from there.
ALL ARE NOT SCAMS!!! I used a FILIPINA dating site back in 2013. "ASIA CHARMS" (not sure) "fell in love" with a pic, sent a msg., got a reply and BINGO. We been married almost 5 years now. She my 4th and by far BEST wife (or gf) I've ever had. She was 25 and me 72 then. I gave up on MURCAN GOLD DIGGIN HOES after 10 yrs. "in the hunt".
Call them desperate and dumb, but the older a guy gets the more unattractive he becomes on the dating scene. Women only want mature men for one reason. I would of fell for a Oriental dating site too if I had more money! Thanks for the upload guys
They can fake skype chat also. I experienced it about 5 or more years ago. They often stream from say for example one of those sites where a girl is posing herself and will do more for money. For the gullible you'll soon enough realise that they don't talk (because obviously it won't make any sense) and the mystery will be solved quickest simply by putting a photo through Google images. More than likely multiple results will appear at that time
Am i the only one who is totally and utterly scared shitless of going to a place like this? everywhere you look is misfortune and discomfort, people being forced to do shit they dont want to do for money, it's so distressing and what's more is as a foreigner with limited resources, what can you really do to help? god it's so frightening
I lived in Fredricton NB Canada for 4 years. There was a man in my neighbourhood that married a woman from the Philippines and was murdered . His 'wife' arranged the whole thing. Be careful out there .
Get them on skype. Never ever send money. Think, they got by before you came along. If you aren’t moving to China as serpentza and C-Milk did then find asian women through a dating site in your country and research with due diligence. They know how to photoshop.
If there's a trend I see in those comments, it's that most of the people having had success with these dating sites is from the 2010-2013 period. Have to consider the changes in the market and business model, i'd wager the success rate today is much lower. Just because it worked out for someone else, doesn't mean the times are still favourable for it working for you
Another site called Asia Charm is a scam too. In order to get any personal information of a Chinese lady one must purchase TOKENS to chat with them. The man must spend the equivalent of $500 worth of TOKENS to reach their PRE-SET amount that must be paid BEFORE they allow you to view their personal info. What is their personal info? Should be their cell phone and email address. Sounds simple right? NOPE! The lady that I was interested in NEVER had her cell phone listed in her personal info. And guess what? Her email address was one from the national Chinese QQ email. The Chinese government censors this private public email flat form on individuals private messages. Mine was flagged "inappropriate and sensitive" content when I only included my home address, my cell number, etc... asked her for same info. QQ email indicated that it did NOT deliver my emails that had any personal info of mine to her. Doing a search on the web reveled that the Chinese government does censor QQ emails and their content. So in the end I never got this lady's cell phone number, never got her address or alternative email either. Its a TOTAL SCAM, Asia Charm is a SCAM!
I trying a china dating site and met a few real beatififul women with nice body’s.. you got to be smart because they are real women mex in the site. You only pick girl who have visited you profile. The fakes will not not everyday too much work. And the real girls are looking at profiles. Then check if they chat a message or mail you, or even like you. Watch they will call you by name. Watch how real they massage is. Then you write to them. Ask for new few picture every day and about there life and who there family and friend. Mine who me here picture of a family visit and family picture and sites where. I can search if this is true of what she saying. Yes that town is famous for that and it’s just as that far as her profile tell where she lives. I am constantly tell her to show me she real. And she try hard to do it. The problem is the visa they can only come here as a tourist or school visa or business not love. Because if you lies and want a green card from the same destination later it will be denied because you lied . So I match my matches to the very young student who like me and tell them about the student exchange that the most visa program and allow 2 yr visa stay. All good but the site is too expensive. Left But are still in contact with 2
Holly Crap That's Bullshit with all the Photo Shop marketing BS , So many poor Bastards I have seen invest up to 30-K before he found out is was a sham. This was the Ukraine specifically , Not China. Id assume it's the same thing everywhere basically... Just more so these locations
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